Sunday, February 16, 2014

Respect Your Parents

ALHAMDULILLAH. All praises indeed to Allah The Merciful and Beneficent,The Creator of The Universe.Blessing and Salutation upon Prophet Muhammad Saw (p.b.u.h),His family and companions that guiding mankind to the light.Today I am going to  share a few words regarding position of parents which is in the third ranking besides Allah and Rasulullah (The Messenger of Allah) Saw. Islam is teaching us to be polite, decent  and making good to our parents.Al Qur'an specifically stress on that matter.The top priority in Islamic teaching is totally loyal and obedience to Allah SWT and never ever shirk to HIM.Allah SWT is the only ONE we worship.The secondly is strictly following The Sun nah of  our beloved Prophet Muhammad Saw and the third category never rejected or dismiss  our parents.We should treat them politely and never ever say bad word even "Ah" to our Mum and Dad.Islam is teaching us to stay away from rebellious children because Allah SWT will curse and condemn those who are liar and brutal to their parents. We may ask is it happen to the people today?

Icon parents

Wether we agree or don't, parents is a real teacher in their family. What we do , what we say and what we act will reflect to our children.The prosperity and peaceful life comes from home.Children tend to follow their parents in all aspects.Parents is the first teacher. Some people never ever talk and communicates with their children in a day or once in a week because they all busy with their business.Good parents always concern their children.They still have a beautiful time to spent together with their family even though in a limited period.Children needs our attention, they needs love and care from us.Building good relationship with our sons and daughters may encouraging their strength to listen and appreciate us.We can't improving their manners without changing our attitude as a role model parents. Don't  talk to change the world if we fail to conduct our family peacefully.

 Pray to Allah

The most important point is never forget to raise up our hand to get blessings from Allah and HIS mercy for our family to washing down all our sins.We can't blame our children if they choose to go to their friends for fun because parents irresponsible to educating them wisely.Islam needs the icon parents which is better known in Malay Ibu Bapa Mithali (exemplary parents) to guiding their family get to know Allah and His Messenger Muhammad Saw by following His Sun nah consistency in a daily life.In conclusion, I would like to remind myself and my beloved brothers and sisters we have to respect our parents whether they are still alive or no longer stay together with us to fulfilling their needs as long as we can. According to Al Qur'an there is no dividing or in Arabic Hijab between parents and children although they all pass away.The word RESPECT representing useful meaning  of  life as follows:

 
Source:  www.bideford.devon.sch.uk


 Allah knows best  
Che Yahya Che Soh
Principal SMKSB@STAR
Segambut, Kuala Lumpur.
Sunday 16 February,2014.
Parents position in Islam.

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